Tag: David and Goliath

A Healing Exclamation Point

Addictions, Goliath-size challenges, and character weaknesses

After the conclusion of our Youth Handcart Trek with the Lehi Stake in Utah, we completed our Utah visit by celebrating at Olive Garden. Our daughter Melanie recently graduated from UVU, and it was our daughter Lisa’s birthday. The Gardner’s joined us.

Morgan and Bethany Gardner

We also attended our home stake conference, and then the Lehi Stake Trek final devotional. Our Kahului youth tuned into the meeting by Zoom from Maui. Wonderful messages were given, lots of gratitude was spoken, and testimonies were shared. Two weeks later (last Sunday), our Kahului 1st Ward bishopric arranged the sacrament meeting program so that most of our Maui youth got a chance to bare their testimonies and express thanks and love regarding the trek, their relationship with Jesus Christ, and their new trek friends in Utah.

Bridal Veil Falls, Provo Utah

On our first Sunday back, we once again faced our Kahului 1st Ward youth, this time as their Sunday School Teachers. We’re grateful for every chance we have to be with them. They are very special. For Come, Follow Me, “The Battle is the Lord’s,” we took turns reading through the account of David and Goliath, then discussed the following questions (their composite individual and insightful answers follow each question):

  1. What ‘Goliath-size’ challenges have I had, or do I now have to overcome?
    1. My phone, web, swearing, going to summer school, not having the right friends, being happy, overcoming my challenging junior year, preparing for a mission, lifestyle, language, going to the next grade, and not being able to say no when being pressured to do something bad.
  2. How does the Lord want me to view my challenges?
    1. As an opportunity to grow, to know my own challenges and ask for him for help with faith and focus on what I can learn, and as a refiner’s fire to make us better. 
  3. How has he helped me in the past?
    1. He helped me with school tests so I wouldn’t have to go to summer school, joy through friends and church, always being there for me when I need help, feel his peace, given me strength and motivation in talking to girls, started middle school alone, talk to me or even shown me signs to stop and think first, and by getting friends.
  4. What do you find in David’s story that gives you hope?
    1. He had so much faith that he could overcome his challenge, with God weak things can become strengths, no matter how big Goliath was David knew the battle is the Lord’s, David followed the Lord, standing alone God will still help you, and ridiculous challenges can be overcome
  5. What if each of David’s stones represented a strength we need to be triumphant? What could those five stones represent?
    1. Faith, prayer, study, love, family, temple work, gospel study, Holy Ghost, serving others, word of God, priesthood, commandments, church, covenants, and scriptures.
  6. While we had them writing, we asked, “What was your favorite part about the Trek?”
    1. Spending time with my Trek Family, sleeping outside with Joe and watching stars and hanging with my ma and pa, family and friends, meeting new people, the Walk with Christ tour which was the most memorable experience because I got closer to Jesus Christ and it strengthened my testimony, feeling the Holy Spirit, baptizing in the Lindon Temple, being with religious youth, a girl gave me her jacket, hanging with friends, meeting family, my brothers and sisters…their so funny and so sweet, and I loved playing games and [hoedown] dancing with them. 

During our absence, our Addiction Recovery Program (ARP) support meetings continued without pause. A wonderful and dedicated brother (Curt Davis) from our ward substituted for us as the ARP Group Leader during each Monday meeting, supported by our wonderful facilitator. While in Utah, Sister Hardman and I were able to late-night host each Thursday night ARP meeting by Zoom. “Now that Sister Hardman and I have been through each step four times,” I told the group recently, “I feel like each step is the most important one.” The truth is they are all important. Step 6 teaches that in order to not return to addictions we must stop trying to do it ourselves and truly experience a change of heart, “surrender to God all remnants of pride and self-will.” 

Although I do not have what most would consider to be traditional addictions, or even Goliath-size challenges, I certainly have character weaknesses that feed and support my tendencies to impatience and being judgmental. Step 6 promises help as we come unto Jesus Christ. “He will wait patiently for us to weary of our efforts to change on our own without help. As soon as we turn to Him, we will again witness His love and power. Instead of clinging to old patterns of behavior, we can have an open mind as the Spirit gently suggests a better way of living.” We are determined to help addicts all we can. But I am also determined to apply these principles to my own life and receive more fully a change of heart and the healing I need due to my character weaknesses.

Kihei, Maui

Last Saturday, we gathered with members across both Maui stakes in our stake center for the Tabernacle Choir concert recorded recently in the California Hollywood Bowl. It was a special and spiritual treat to listen to the many inspiring performers and musical numbers while rubbing shoulders with people we’ve come to love over the last year and a quarter. It was a special missionary and fellowshipping event for all of us, a healing exclamation point at the end of another week of service.